Traits from "My Life for Brides": memories and projects of Amelia Casablanca told by Biba Merlo
Tips for Bridesloweb2018-01-08T14: 45: 05 + 01: 00
The Tips for Brides
from the book "My Life for Brides"
1. Look at you with eyes of the heart
Gli occhi del cuore sono quelli che vedono meglio, come diceva Saint Exupery ne Il Piccolo Principe.
You know yourself, and they are the ones you use when you look at the people you love. Definitely not you would change a man's point of your life, but neither of your parents, brothers, sisters, friends of the heart.
So why are you so strict with yourself?
When you look in the mirror only you find defects. Want one size smaller here, one more than there and if straight hair is curly, curly if they are straight, taller, thinner ... Stop.
You are much more than a size or measure, try to love you, as much as possible.
Also you convince others.
2. Happiness is Now
This is a magical time in your life. You are preparing for the big day and everything revolves around this special event in which you will be in the spotlight. Do not ruin your own celebration, starting to think that to be perfect (and happy) that day You need to do some kind of efforts to change what is wrong with you. Well, first you reflect for a moment: you would like your him to become different? When you're in love with him you thought then you would have become higher, lower, leaner, more fat, blond or brown, or who knows what? Surely not, and it is precisely his small defects to make it unique. Just like you. Imperfections are valuable because they make each of us unique and unrepeatable. Do not postpone happiness, ten pounds in ten sessions the beautician or ten hours in the gym. Be happy now.
3. Take all the time you need
And now let's talk about clothes. You'll have guessed how many times, but most likely you've never tried one. Well, this is the time to do it. Do not be intimidated by the fact that in the shops and ateliers of customary wedding dresses you receive a customer at a time by appointment. You do not have to choose the first date mainly because you've never seen wearing a suit of this kind. Amelia Casablanca and its dealers know this is a difficult purchase, fully familiar with the doubts and uncertainties of future brides are therefore at your disposal to help you with their expertise and professionalism. If you have already identified a particular style that you like best through some magazines or hanging out on the Internet, starting from that but do not discard anything without trying. Clothes that do not convince you on the mannequin, may reserve you some pleasant surprises.
4. Respect your budget
To speak of money, is perhaps the taboo par excellence of our time.
Invece, dato per acquisito che non sono tutto e da soli non danno la felicità, dobbiamo farci i conti durante tutta la nostra vita quindi meglio non averne soggezione e imparare a gestirli.
Most likely you have a rough idea of how much you want to spend on your dress, then when you start your tour of evidence (a very fun!) Report it before you begin.
You'll save inconvenience later. It is not necessary
stra-spend to have a dress that you gifts.
And especially if you have spent too much respect to your idea, you may feel uncomfortable or repent.
When you meet "your" clothes, you will recognize it immediately.
It will be love at first sight.
5. Listen to the advice but then lets you choose to your heart
Probably when you start to go and try some clothes, you may not be alone. Perhaps with her mother, perhaps with one or more friends and, as it should be, they will express their views. Listen all, the facts explain the reason for their choice, talk to them and with whom you are proposing clothes, but ultimately, choose alone. With heart and head, assessing the pros and cons but you alone. Do not worry about other people's judgment, if you feel good, if you like you will be the same for others. And do not worry if the dress you choose will need some adjustment to fit your body. The main character is you and the dress is only half because you can express yourself. Who will your dress, do it just for you and his only desire is to make you beautiful.
6. The dress not only as the body
Personality makes the difference.
The same dress can change connotations depending on who wears it, then, when you prepare to choose this dress, do not take into account only the "measures", but think about how you are "in."
You are outgoing or reserved, a bit 'exhibitionist or timid, you move much or you're more quiet, and so on.
If you feel a butterfly, dance and song when you walk when you speak, you are guided in choosing from knowing what your deepest essence and not mortify you by those who see only "the envelope" and does not know your soul.
There are gigantic women even with only a meter and a half in height, other delicate dragonflies eighty pounds.
Respect your true self, and I very much like you.
7. Do not be afraid
Are you preparing one of the most exciting days of your life, you are happy, excited, at times also a little 'stressed out, but do not fall into the trap of perfectionism. Perfection does not exist. And the most important thing is that you two are happy and you enjoy your time. Do not be afraid, ever, to express your opinion and to enforce it, to realize all the little dreams that can come true, to dare everything you've always wanted. The dress and everything around him, from the hairstyle shoes, from lingerie to jewelry should only be chosen in your function. Make concessions only where you know of being able to do, and defend yourself from the psychological pressures that may inadvertently come from family, yours or his. You smile, you smile as you can, especially to yourself and enjoy!
8. Search harmony
You'll feel even more at ease, if you, with the dress you choose, you will be in tune with the environment around you.
Just a small detail because everything goes in unison.
Wild flowers and large straw hat to a party in the country, gloves and pearls for an atmosphere twenties, just as an example, how to add a reference to the popular tradition of the place where the event takes place, perhaps through music , dancing or menu.
Maybe you might like to wear something that belongs to the women in your family.
Do it and felt proud, all that will allow you to harmonize your inner world with your special day, will make it unforgettable.
9. The party will last long
The marriage will last one day, from dawn when they begin their preparations, it will come at night when most revelers friends return home. Think and Provvedi so as to always be brightly and in excellent shape. You've chosen a very long dress for the ceremony and you are afraid to tire yourself by wearing it all day? No problem, dresses like those of Amelia Casablanca predict that we can remove the big skirt and put it back with a few gestures. The same you can do with shoes, jewelry, hairstyle. Change, have fun, play, it's your day. Enjoy it to the end.
10. It is not a day like any other
No matter if it's the first or fourth marriage is a special day and you will remember it for a lifetime.
Do not fool yourself by saying that if the dress will be "normal" the riutilizzerai: it never happens.
Dream with your eyes open and look for the dress you've always wanted, it is a unique opportunity, a party in which you are the protagonist and then crush the scene of your life with a step by real star.
There are no restrictions and there are no errors when to guide us is the love for beautiful things and the necessary sensitivity to make happy those who love us.